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Herbal Apothecary Now Open at Garnet and the Moon!
Early on in my journey with this business of my heart, I started dreaming of having an herbal apothecary that could support grievers with products made with the incredible plant allies the earth has shared with us for grief. Allies like lavender, calendula, chamomile, and geranium. I am so excited to say that my dream has come true and Garnet and the Moon has small batch handmade products to support you wherever you are in your forest of grief. My hope is that these items lo
Abigail Goelzer
7 days ago1 min read


Family Estrangement is Strange
Garnet and the Moon Help Can Help You Cope With the Grief of Estrangement If you have found yourself estranged from your family, you are not alone. Estrangement, and the grief it often comes with, have become many people’s family “normal.” And while it’s not always all bad, it can be difficult to cope with, especially as you make your way through “firsts” like holidays and birthdays without the people you once were attached to. Social media allows us a window into other peop
Abigail Goelzer
Nov 243 min read


Midwestern Daughter Vibes
I’m a child of the Midwest. A midwestern daughter, if you will. Raised by place as much as by my parents. I am of this place in a way that doesn’t apply when I find myself in other locations. I am from Milwaukee, but I consider myself in part raised by the ethos of our whole region. As such, I’m pretty tough. We all are. We grew up slogging through long freezing winters without fancy escapes in a big city or wild mountain fun. We survive summer corn sweats and have lakes that
Abigail Goelzer
Oct 232 min read


Coming Soon: Midwestern Daughter
I’m a child of the Midwest. A midwestern daughter, if you will. Raised by place as much as by my parents. I am of this place in a way...
Abigail Goelzer
Oct 62 min read


Grow in Grief with Garnet and the Moon
Discounts! Discounts! Discounts! One thing about me is I give a profound shit about grief care. I think tending to our grief is the...
Abigail Goelzer
Jun 92 min read


A Year of Grief Magic
The first cohort of Mother Wort and Rose‘s Grief Magic class concluded our year-long study/creation/gathering/portal at the beginning of...
Abigail Goelzer
May 192 min read


Separation Station
In September I went out of town to do some deep and beautiful work with people I love a lot around the delicate and intricate and often...
Abigail Goelzer
Nov 4, 20241 min read


Summer Portals
When the universe gives you a portal, go through it, even if the doorway is dripping in grief and your inner child is quaking in her...
Abigail Goelzer
Aug 23, 20241 min read


Gods for Each Other
July 20 would have been my mom’s 82nd birthday. Accidentally (there are no accidents) every book I read during my week away last week was...
Abigail Goelzer
Jul 22, 20241 min read


Our Soft Mammal Bodies in a Crumbling Empire
Not gonna lie, friends, Empire’s got me down. I can metabolize my grief until I can’t and maybe the Supreme Court on top of everything...
Abigail Goelzer
Jul 2, 20242 min read


Peony Season
One of my favorite moments of the season where I am held by my gardens is when my peonies bloom. I inherited them from one of the women...
Abigail Goelzer
Jun 5, 20242 min read


Taking Time to Transform
There have been so many times I have wanted to rush past the moment I was in and get to the next phase of whatever I thought my...
Abigail Goelzer
Feb 14, 20243 min read


Welcome, 2024. Can't Wait to See What You Hold
2023 was really something. I don’t have a highlight reel or things to list I just know this has has been one of the most informative and...
Abigail Goelzer
Jan 3, 20242 min read


On Grief and Parent Loss and Holidays: Missing the Special and the Mundane
There is a hole in my heart the shape of my mom, and it flares when I do holiday errands and wish she were riding next to me, snacking on...
Abigail Goelzer
Dec 23, 20231 min read


Lament as Resistance: A Meditation on Demeter's Grief
When I think of the story of Demeter and Persephone, Hades and the pomegranate, I find myself seeing most clearly the grief of a mother...
Abigail Goelzer
Dec 18, 20232 min read


Thoughts on Grief, as We Watch Our Systems Crumble
Grief is expansive. It enters when what we knew to be true is no longer. A medical diagnosis, a parent dying, a friend or lover leaving...
Abigail Goelzer
Oct 16, 20231 min read


To Love, Even When That Means We Will Grieve
I have been thinking a lot lately about grief and choices- the choices we make, the ones others make, and the things we would never...
Abigail Goelzer
Sep 15, 20232 min read


On Moms and Magic and Love and Loss
Today is the 14th anniversary of my mom’s transition to whatever comes after these earthly lives. Our relationship was beautiful, flawed,...
Abigail Goelzer
Sep 3, 20232 min read


How We Remain: Grief and Great Shatterings
"We can sit with knowing that even as we are faced with extraordinary pain and destruction. that the in tact nature of the world remains...
Abigail Goelzer
Jul 19, 20232 min read


Nature as Witness to Our Growth and Grief
If we don't deny the inevitable end to our story, we will write it more beautiful while we are alive" -Andrea Gibson These trees live in...
Abigail Goelzer
Jul 15, 20232 min read
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