Grow in Grief with Garnet and the Moon
- Abigail Goelzer
- Jun 9, 2025
- 2 min read

One thing about me is I give a profound shit about grief care. I think tending to our grief is the greatest way for us to move in the direction of living freely as we are meant to.
I have spent the past year living my praxis that at the heart of grief work is liberation, both personal and collective. It has not always been comfortable in the moment but most growth isn’t (the growing pains in my 7th grade legs still haunt me 😞) BUT I will admit it has been full of laughter and connection and wow wow wow moments. Grief care is not always solemn.
In the discomfort I’ve shed the stories about who I am that were no longer (some were never) true. I’ve been able to grieve in the care of others who helped pull me from the depths when I needed a life raft, and they were there to dive back in again when I was ready. I am truly changed and freer than I was a year ago. It was worth every ounce of discomfort and the beauty and grace that came with.
I would be honored to tend to your grief alongside you, offer you a life raft when you need one. Working with our grief can seem daunting. But it also creates a lightness because others are shouldering it with you, helps you feel connected instead of isolated, and offers a safe harbor in a storm.
Working with our grief helps us identify the stories of our lives, new and old. It also lets us rewrite the stories that no longer apply.
In doing so we step into identities that feel like they fit our truth, rather than fitting the expectations others had for us.

I’ll be introducing new offerings over the summer to help grievers work in targeted areas like estrangement, mother/parenthood, and narrative reconstruction and I couldn’t be more excited. Help me celebrate by taking advantage of my first ever sale! Enter EXPAND15 for 15% off individual coaching packages and NOURISH20 for $20 off Untangling Your Grief. If you are a member of the lgbtq+ community and would like 50% off a coaching package, email hello@garnetandthemoon.com !
Discounts good for any purchases made in June.




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